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Is dating harder for black women?
This is something that goes around my head a lot. Is my ethnicity holding me back from finding love? I know it sounds ridiculous but hear me out, I have receipts. Is dating harder for black women? As you know, I am currently on a voyage of self discovery and…
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The hell of dating sites
Dating has become a multi million pound industry (Statisica, Sept 2023) which would lead you to believe there are millions of single folk all looking for love in the UK. If that is the case why do I seem to only attract the guys that albeit in their mid to…
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People pleasing
The more honest I become with myself the more I am accepting that I have been a people pleaser my entire life…so far. It comes as naturally to me as breathing which means, it is going to be a long process to unlearn this behaviour and unlearn it I need…
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Bottling it up will not make it disappear
Well, well, well, look who’s back! I am the first to admit that I often keep things inside for fear of being judged and writing this blog is no different. This is the first post in years and my god it feels good to get this out. It’s time to…
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Get up, show up, rise up
I’ve been a little quiet over the past couple of months and it was needed. I needed to be with my family, who in all honestly I have neglected due to misplaced loyalties. This summer I stopped work completely and spent the entire time with my family. Whilst it was…
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Manifesting Eternal Love
I‘ve been single a long time now, dates here and there and even a couple of short relationships but my inner mean cow repeatedly tells me, I can’t keep a man. I know this is not true. I know my terrible love life is down to my own self limiting…
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Tough day
I’m struggling today…I had to make phone calls to dementia care and social services. Very tough. You see in my head my mum is still the bright, bubbly, outspoken woman who embarrassed me greatly by dragging me out of a nightclub in her nightie….I was 16 and thought I could…
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It’s all about progression & growth
When I became a single mum and took my first holiday alone with my Angel I cried every day. Ok so it was meant to be my honeymoon so I let myself off for that. Then the next holiday was slightly better, I only cried twice in the 7 days…
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It’s all becoming clear now!
My journey so far has been an eye-opening experience. Things I never thought I would be able to do, I am doing. Such as telling people exactly how I feel about the way they behave towards me. This has taken so much inner strength, as I used to be a…
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Sometimes it’s hard to be…a woman!
This morning has got off to an interesting start. I had breakfast with a friend and that was lovely. Every now and then you need to down tools and just be in the moment so that was just what I needed. Then I attended an appointment I’d booked because I…
Mindful Living 